My epiphany about relationships…i had it in my car while i was
sitting there waiting for triple A.  I stood up on  my car
and flagged down this poor guy named nigel who was happily and
peacefully walking to the elevator -minding his own business-and asked
for his assistance.. this is what happens when ur a nice guy. you get
stuck waiting with me.. for about three hours.. for stupid triple A to
come.. YAy for gentlemen though

Healthy Relationships should include:

• Trust and support
• Honesty
• Respect
• Shared responsibility
• Equality
• Always feeling safe
• Comfort
• Mutual Growth
• Happiness

and the feeling that something deep inside you says this is right,
there should be no little voice that says.. something isn’t right.. but
i’m just going to ignore it.. that’s the biggest sign that really its
not meant to be.  When two people who upon separation as in two
different rooms really want to be together, and you think about each
other like all the time and willing to sacrifice yes.. sacrifice is
necessary in a relationship.. maybe not a lot of sacrifice.. nothing
drastic.. like stop talking to all ur guy/ girl friends and just me me
me… but like little things like. maybe turning off the basketball
game to spend time with the girl or instead of going shopping.. go
workout with the guy.. little things.. they may not be that big of a
sacrifice but.. in the end these add up

so many people i know are in relationships.. guy friends… girl
friends… everyone and their mommas seem to be in relationships. 
As good as relationships are.. there are so many pitfalls and big red
signs taht say.. maybe you shouldn’t be in that relationship cuz hmm
you can do better?

1).  Your parents/family/friends 
hate them then whats the point… family and friends are so important
if you see anything happening in the future either ur sig. other will
have to suck up majorly to your family/ friends or its just not
happening.. you really need their support in this.  Family most of
all….theyre the ones who shaped you- whether you realize it or not -
into who you are.. if they don’t approve its becasue they can see past
your blindness and biasedness.. heed them
2).  Theyre invading your privacy.
Doesn’t that mean that they don’t trust you? Trust is what a
relationship is based on.. if there’s no trust then … what can you
build up from?  If they don’t trust you or can’t.. then dump
them.. unless.. they make an effort to change… and yes.. change is
necessary.. no two people are perfect for each other we can get pretty
close matches.. and through change and sacrifice can we get closer to
being each other’s ideal match.
3).  Seriously. you have to be friends first..
how else can you have fun around each other .. cuz let’s face it we
won’t be young and blooming forever.. and some of us can only hope to
age gracefully… when the passion and beauty die what are you going to
fall back on? friendship! sooo ifyou want something to last.. get to
know each other first.. don’t rush into things.. i learned the hard
way. that you really can’t throw a bunch of things into mixing bowl and
hope that a cake comes out.. the same goes for a relationship.. DON’T
RUSH INTO THINGS seriously.. DON’T we’re young take it slow..
everything will be so much better you can learn to trust each other,
you can find out each other’s weaknesses/ strengths to build them up or
learn from them.  A relationship is a growing process if there’s
no growth then there’s no relationship. I mean come on.. we all love
cuddling whether it be with a boyfriend, a cat, a pledge sister (
muahahah lorraine) , orrr your very faithful body pillow. Everyone
says… we’ll all end up just renting movies, eating ,and then
sleeping.  How to avoid that? well its simple.. don’t do it..
instead of napping.. just don’t.. go for a walk.. its so much fun!walk
a dog together! i personally love huskies =) theyre so gorgeous. 
Or go jogging.. its way fun! work out together.. seriously… like..
don’t get all self conscious.. he’ll be sweaty and gross too so he
can’t say antyhing.. besides.. u konw a guy really likes you if he
thinks ur even more gorgeous with no makeup and sweat dripping down ur
face like a pig.  That’s a compliment i wouldn’t throw back in a
guy’s face =)
4).  You really have to have fun with them no matter what.. i
realized lately… maybe a little too late that there’s more to initial
attraction- you really shouldn’t act on initial attraction.. yeah they
may be pretty but .. they also may be hollow.. or they might hit on
everygirl.. like a manwhore.. orr they might just be insecure, or they
might cheat on you in the future.. (attention whores are ususally the
ones you need to be careful for), or they might scar you for life
forever and ever and you could never trust them again,  you don’t
know these things about the other person when you first meet. 
Common interests are good aka. Snowboarding, watching disney movies,
garage sales hehe, strawberries, abercrombie, skateboarding, wanting to
surf, chinese backgrounds, jamba juice flavors, religion, mustang
convertibles.  oh yeah … an even tempered person is TOTALLY A
PLUS find one that doesn’t read into everything… ask a million
questions… get ridiculously jealous…  looks through your stuff
… argues with you constantly … or simply bores you to death but
you’re just too nice to say it.. so you think by being there more often
will fix things..but it really doesn’t. If its not meant to be then its
not… do’nt force it.. if its meant to be then you’ll end up together
in the future.

The best and utmost thing is being able to communicate, laugh about
everything, have fun  doing EVERYTHING  together.. calling
each other names…drawing faces out of boba, having boba wars… if
you can find joy out of anything when you’re with someone that’s how
the butterfly feelings last.

i’m sure many have heard about this.. but for girls there are two
ladders.. the potential ladder and the friendship ladder.. after
talking to kevin kuo about this i gleaned that potentials can cross
over to the friend ladder and the friends can also cross over to the
potential ladder.  Potentials always fuck things up by being WAY
TOO FORWARD and getting turned down.. whereupon.. theyre not even on a
ladder anymore.  theyre just .. down in the jumbles of have beens
and that’s sad because if they waited long enough or shown enough
persistence and faithfulness the girl really she’s not blind. .is bound
to notice and pay more attention to you.  However, if a guy did
already fuck things up he has a chance in the girl book of rules that
with enough groveling and apologizing he will get himself back on the
friend ladder.. but that’s about it.  Screwups ususally include
being too forward physically like trying to hold her hand or putting
your arm around her then she’ll just not want to be around you, asking
her out (now she has to turn you down… AWKWARD), and worst of all
trying to kiss her. oh god.. why would you do such a thing..
seriously.. why ?why ?why?  i don t get it…if she’s intersted..
she’ll let you know.. really .. she will.. if she doens’t think its
time yet then don’t pressure her. If you two are dancing and you lean
closer and the girl sees you trying to kiss her and she does some weird
thing where all of a sudden all her hair is in her face now.. take the
hint… she’s not trying to seduce you with a crazy new dance move..
she’s just hiding now. and buddy you got 10 seconds to back off..

and if all in all you’re happy without a title then by all means don’t
get a title.. title’s aren’t the greatest if you’re ocmpletely happy
without one.. like.. completely .. then cool! good for you!
expectations and everytyhing seems to get messed up once a title comes
along with a relationship. . .  Timing is also key.. something
that may not work now.. because of certain circumstances may work
later. Some people beleive in this.. i don’t know. .i think… it all
has to do with how much a person has learned and grown from the
experience

EVeryone learns from relationsihp.. just take what you’ve learned and
apply it.. but don’t become jaded by it that your whole being is
infused with suspicion.. its not fair to the new gf/ bf.  Keep an
open mind, and see them and appreciate them for who and what they
are.  Beauty comes in so many forms… learn to look past the
superficial and fleeting  by focusing instead on the perfection of
a being soul. 

omg omg omg.. i’m having dreams about something that i should be
totally over..!!! ahhhhhh what’s wrong with me and why the heck is it
happening now? sigh its been like..
ages and ages and ages.. i was so happy still am but no.. after a whole week..
seriously no joke A WHOLE WEEK! of weird dreams.. and i don’t dream
like i really don’t.. it jus tdoesn’t happen.. i might sleep talk.. yes
i do that… sleep sing in chinese.. yes i’ve done that too.. and over
the summer apparently i still sleep walk.. buutt!!! dream..
never! and about this memory its like… doooood i’m so happy right
now.. what’s wrong with my subconscious.. maybe my subconscious is
retarded and doesn’t want me to be happy so when i’m like.. super happy
its gotta keep me in check …. that’s pretty messed up though..
buuuuutttt yeah…..when have i ever been this happy?.. its like being
a little kid over again =) now if the nightmares would just go away..
it’d be perfect!

wahhhhhhhhh… wats wrong with me and of all things to dream about.. if
i could just bring myself to hate the memory.. then yeah.. buuuttttt
when have i ever hated anything? except well.. two people but that’s
two people in the span of like. what 19 yearS? and go figure it all
happens in college actuallly. .make that four well two i actually just
feel sorry for cuz theyre ugly and not very good people either.. not
that i don’ t like ugly people but when ur personality is ugly too..
that’s when hate turns to pity… and that’s just sad.. if you’re
like.. ugly and a good person.. then dude. ur my homie..
buuuttt   if fakeness comes along with ugliness then well..
i’m sorry really i am ur parents must not like you too much .. or maybe
they just pretend that they do

so here is me bitching on and on because well yeah i’m bitter.. triple
ticketed.. god! hopefully my appeal will go through.. i got all the
other tickets knocked off
these shouldn’t be a biggie either.. hpefully .. fingers crossed

hmmm orrr maybe i’m all psycho cuz some people just have very psycho
ex’s.. like seriously… get a life….i know ki know.. just cuz u
cna’t be as perfect as some of us… i know keidric wants to be
mentioned here… cuz he thinks he’s pretty or so he says he is… buuutttt back to my bitching

let’s see.. when was the last time i got this upset??? hmm.. its kinda
fuzzy .. can’t really remember… *shrug* oh well sometime like two
months ago..

but yeah.. stupid parking people… sets off a whole chain reaction..
cuz i’m sureeee the parking ticket guy was like.. gross… he’s
probably just upset that he does’nt even HAVE a car soooooo he’s like
i’m going ot screw over everyone who does have a car…
fjidof;jodiafjio asshole…

i hope he repents for his sins!! hmph!

on a mushier note.. nowt hat i’m done bitching..

how random is that?? hehe i think its about that time of the month…

…. where i should just quarantine myself.. cuz its so embarrassing how moody i get

Kelly my lil bro is another year older hooray!!! hehe

happy birthday xiao di di!

annnddd asl lil bro just crossed officially he had his installs.. so in
the process of going to those installs it was quite the adventure…
first we ate with the riverside aces theyre so fun! and yes james i
would have to agree is a slut! but that’s not necessarily a bad thing
its up to interpretation.  Then i rushed back for grandma’s bday

from left to right my super pimp asl big… grungy me… my gangsta
looking lil bro.. he’s not that ghetto though..  he’s jsut
adorable.. and my pale ass twin on the very right hehe asl family!!!..
and then some random white guy int he back RUINING OUR PICTURE!
thennnn rushed to school.. changed.. and drove anna, hong, megan, and
cindy to asl installs.. we went to the wrong marriott.. gehh!! then
drove alll the way to downtiown l.a. whereupon we made it and saw them
cross! and my adorable lil jack got me letters! and totally tagged it
in pink cursive.. i don’t believe it says my name once on it
haha just jack’s big sis..  and then he got me this cute picutre
frame with a picture of both of us drunk at exchange.. i melted.. =)

anyway!!! i was so upset so i went to lids today to get embroidery for
lil jiun but nooooo they wouldn’t allow embroidering omegas because it
wasn’t on the list or something for fraternities/sororities..
apparenlty. they can only embroider whtie greek people’s stuff. .i
wanted to throw  a hissy fit in the store.. butt then i
realized… i’d be being a little brat.. so i thought bettter of it. I
just did’nt put back any of hte hats that i looked at.. which was a lot
=)

RANDmest thing happened today

i was walking into wooden to workout veered towards the lavatory.. and
stopped.. there with the biggest and dopiest smile i’ve ever seen was
my dad.. MY DAD!! just looking around all jolly and happy.. he saw me
and he waslik.e ohh!! see i knew it! so he took my sick mom to go see
the doctor.. and they decided to go on a date and take pictures around
ucla.. “we have karma… soo of course we’d run into each other ur my
daughter!” i was ready to gag!! hahaha hong got to meet my dad.. that
was cute

went down to westwood to get a pedicure.. but noooo they were all
booked up. grrr not my day today.. buuttt instead i did get some summer
clothes from bebe. and that little store? is it minx? yeah.. it was cute

AND FOR HONG IS A RE-CREATION OF FORMALS… moment by moment

here’s my wifey deanna and i love her to death…. buutt since i can’t
take deanna to formals… sigh .. i guess i’ll have to take kayu haha jk

kayu was a great date! lorraine and diana you guys picked a great lil
bro! yay! he got me an engraved license plate.. i was like.. woah! i
did’n tknow they made those



and here is my best friend brittney that i’ve known since 1st grade…
and now we’re the best roomates.. amazing.. =) i realized as i was
writing how we met on facebook.. that we really have known each other
for a long time

here’s me and the freak -nasty nhaster she modeled hair for vidal
sassoon look at her funky do.. only you nha could pull that off and
still look stunning

and here we are.. we arrived at the hotel. it was so pretty.. couple of escorts standing around in front looking all ghetto

and my beloved car.. ya’ll cant see it.. but there was a great view…
the location was so gorgeous it was kind of on a hill and we had total
ocean view

Theta kappa phi baby boxes… how precious are these?Thank you Charms

family picture… i rushed this girl!!! and now not only is she an
animaniac.. buuuttt she’s pc! woot woot.. pat meself on the back muahah

wes and albert started attacking kayu right when we got there i know
he’s cute and all but come on now.. look albert really wants
him…”ALBERT Let-go-of-my-date…”

it WOULD have been a perfect picture.. if Nick!!!! hadn’t jumped in..
freakin attention whore renegades.. what you think ur harmonies?? huh
huh huh?? hehe

much better.. the harmonies of animaniacs by the wayyy when are we going to get our embroidery?? KAY!!

DI SAN SU-madre!! bwahahahah
gurl….this ain’t spanish class
 
nha and steph liu =) she’s la canada too hehe LC = quality
 
i lub lub lub lub lubbbbbb youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu here kitty kitty kat!

finally we met the much talked about chris! look how happy our little kat is… i approve kat i really do.. he’s a cutie!

Congrats Maggie!!! you’re a Theta!!! can you believe it? last year you
were honorary harmony and now you’re a part of the Charming class. by
the way.. i heard from lorrainey that you and catherine do some
interesting stuff to each other.. hmmmmm

and here are the tallest girls of the sorority see how these Charms are so tall… me and anna.?? just struggling. hehe

two words.. lambda installs and apple smirnoff… that’s all

awwwwwwwwww

“hey bitch” hehe two brains = one!

awww i love you unconditionally too future roomate.. but if i see any
kimchi on the floor next year.. ohhhhhhhh  no more kimchi for
youu!!! jk..i like the radish hehe

princess michelle and uhhh… jeff? what is jeff doing?

thetas love renegades =) theyre great dates all smiles now

pledge sis lovin

busy busy

what is albert??? let’s all say it now.. awkward.. look at him sitting there.. its so weird.. but so adorable.

Harmonies= loud and attention-whorish… untillll i met macy…. that
is girlfriend jumps riggghhttt into themiddle of every dance circle
harmonies make..hahha.. and gets stupid.. and dumb dumb dumb dumb

pam’s cute.. i think i was in the middle of a sentence… ??? or maybe
i just looked retarded. hmm dun’t quite know it might be the latter

family!!! chaotic/animaniacs family = the best! that’s right.. we’re the best..the family that can eat the most… that’s us

ooooweeeeeee

big and lil sis.. say cheeseeeee

James looks like he’d won the lottery and is quite smug about it.. isn’t he a lucky guy?

so happy at formals… miss president here is one proud lady

and i won the jackpot with such a great big sis what would i have done without her support?

biggie and her lambda date =) look at that bling linda has on her wrist… oooohhhahhh

cindy’s sooo pretty! awww look how dainty she is

once i learn how to photoshop hong?? i’ll photoshop ur face into the spot riiiggghhhtt about di’s head

hubbie that’s me.. and wifey.. that’s her

observe in the process.. how my facial’s change.. while deanna’s
remains.. very constant guess i love youuu more huh! huh huh huh!


some lambdas at formals hehe yay lambdas! look at quy’s teal tie… how spiffy

i got picked up izumi.. my kid on the left and quy quy quy!!! has
everyone noticed how much more quy smiles now? he never smiled last year

quy got sad that i was leaning on zoomie’s shoulder so to prove that i
love him equally as much i toook another picture with him.. all by
himself.. buthe’s not even looking at the camera! that punk

kayu the flower jacker..

must back brush hair.. so maggie busts out the heavy duty hair spray.. here she is!




bring on the candids

b-b-b-attle!

……………..i really dont know who this is.. orrr how i got this picture… who is he?!?





the window’s behind us look like a painting

and once againnnn !!!!! i was inthe middle of a sentence!!!!

why are you guys molesting kayu againnnnn!?!?!??!!!? why why why!??!

he made me another bracelet.. how sweet is that? these renegades are quite crafty

linda and her date

pamela chowin down..

kayu and my grandbig

look how excited i got over food

………..uhhh i don’t know what to say

keke.. look look look my eyes = circles   your eyes = uhhh poo

take a look at what chris is doing int he background.. sooo creepy haha. jk

twins grant’s sayin wassup

biggie workin her magic

slow dance time

vultures.. these two are vultures

After dinner  GAG AWARDS

Theta Lush -drinks the most-: Miss Ashley Sun
Theta Mush-can’t drink at all-: Miss Melissa Lui
Golden Legs-gets asked to escort the most-: Miss Catherine Xia
Dr. Jekyl Mrs. Hyde -split personality-: Miss Alison Kwan
National Inquirer- knows everyone’s business-: Miss Deanna Cheng
Wolf in sheeps clothing- self explanatory-: Miss Diana Bui
Best Big and lil-cuteness-: Miss Susan Cho and Miss Macy Lieu
Kate and Ali- always together-: Miss Kristine Joy Farnal and Miss Kathleen Pera
Miss M.I.A- missing in action-: Miss Tiffany Shih
Ball and Chain- ……hahhaha-: Miss Anna Yeung and Vincey poo
Closet Scammer- girl that gets a lot of game but noone knows about it… she keeps it D .L.-: Miss Vanessa Le
Queen Bee- gets jocked the most-: Miss Deanna Le and Miss Christine Dai
Miss P.M.S- miss p.m.s hehehe–: Miss Kathleen Pera
Miss Megaphone- the loudest-: Miss Sue Lee
Lost in space-the spaciest one-: Miss Debbayyyyyyyy Lin
Rose Award- pledge that’s shown the most sisterhood-: Miss Deanna Le
Pearl Award- pledge that’s shown the most service to the class-: Miss Stephanie Liu

three years of golden leg …jill is my eminem she taught me the ways hehe



the boys wanted to be queen bees too


ahahaha


big and lil

this should be vince’s facebook pic

rannnndommmmmmm =D



do the pageant wave wifey

husband shopping buddies

much thanks to our beautiful alumni for coming out to support us

somewhere along the line.. the g fell off so its hon and christine..
the bulldog = hong cuz she’s feisty and the squirrel is me.. for macing
a squirrell.. really.. it was just in the way… it was innn tthhhee
busshhh i did not do it on purpose.. i’ve got nothin against squirrels.
really i don’t

and to cap it all off!!!! our hot animaniacs family with a gripload of our pretty alumni hooray! i was really excited

formals was so awesome! the afterparty.. was bomb it was BOMB! too bad i don’ thave pictures from that.. the camera died during our ceremony.. however!!!! =) i do have pictures from formals… Hong even though you couldn’t come .. know that me your gb and  ur ggb + family are always behind you i love you sweetie my prayers go out to you and your family

i drank tea… sigh.. its 4am.. i can’t sleep for many many reasons…

my first gucci purse came in the mail! i can’t wait to go look at it… waiting for the second one =)

soooo one of my students owns royal order this crazy clothing company sooo hence i get free stsuff from there from now on.. its so expensive.. even though its not really my normal style.. it’ll grow on me hehe free clothes are sstill free.. their jewelry omg.. 1000 to 2000 for just sterling silver. i was ready to faint  however.. their clothing is supposed to be quite popular with the Hollywood crowd.hehe dont i feel special!!

i really do feel special

and also kinda moded rightnow.. buuttt then again it is 4 am.. got a buttload of chinese hw to do and wayyy too much on my mind to sleep —all nighter? i thikn i’ll go jogging in the morn to clear the head up a bit

GUESS WHO CAME DOWN TO VISIT MEE!!!!
you’ll never guess you’ll never ever ever guess!!!… so i’m not going
to tell you … ehehe

but it was fun!

fun

fun

fun

that’s the second time i’ve ridden on one of those goddam
motorcycles…. and screamed my little lungs out.. its much scarier at
night but omg so much fun!

seriously traffic from lax to ucla this morning.. was miserable utterly
miserable.. sitting in traffic +pulling an all nighter+ having your
heart jump into ur throat when a million harleys just squeeze by ur new
car just don’t go together one of these days.. a big gold mustang is
going to accidentally bump into one of them noisy bikers with the long
grey beards and leather jackets. and that geezers gonna go
flyinngggg…. and hopefully when he gets out of the hospital he’ll
stay in a rocking chair where he belongs… instead of CUTTING ME OFF
ON THE 405! GRR

i saw another gold mustang today!!! ANOTHER ONE!!! HOW DARE SHE!!
whoever she is. well watever.. mine’s a convertible.. but.. seriously!!
HOW DARE SHE! hmph!

WAHHH… *whiney voice*

“say you’ll share with me one love one lifetime… “- phantom of the opera

ANNNDD DRUMROLL !!!  here are some of the pictures from this amazing weekend …the rest… we leave behind the border line

the day before we headed south i went and got a car!! finally my own
car!! i’ve wanted a mustang convertible since i was in high school..
and though the parents don’t know yet that i got the car…i think i’ll
have to tell them eventually max a month since the insurance bills will
be sent home… eck.. that’ll be interesting.. but until then!!! its
mine its mine its mine!!

and just in time for spring… its gold!!! hehe.. i was thiiiisss
close to getting silver.. buuutttt.. EVERYONE and their mommas have
silver cars.. hehe.. besides. its hong’s favorite color too.. sooo here
it is!! i love it love it love it!

one last american meal before i drive three hours down… macdonalds chicken selects soo delicious

its the arch.. we’re SOOOO CLOSE!! hehe quote of the moment mel
“oooh look its the mexican flag… let’s take it!!” hehe.. can you
imagine mel running across the border clutching her mexican flag with a
bunch of angry mexicans after her 

we’re at the parking lot before goin in… parked my new car so it
won’t get stolen.. and off to go to hail a taxi into mexico eeekk so
excited!

damn those mexican taxi drivers are like vultures.. they wait on the other side of the border and swoop down on you

our lovely little hotel room in playas de tijuana hacienda del mar.. it was

supposed to be in the upper class area… the hotel was nice and
cute and clean ; the rest of the town.. i think i had enough in my
wallet to buy the whole town.. change its name to cdaitown and proclaim
myself mayor.. then get allll the coconut shells i could eat

anddd i would have an unlimited supply of fresh coconut juice.. out of an authentic plastic bag and straw

just a little ghetto.. buutt.. “when in rome…”

nighttimeish saturday… dinner at this little mexican restaurant
first time eating salsa and chips in mexico.. it was delicious!

first drinks of the night midori sour and midori seven.. the seven
was sooo good! wanna know why?? i bet there was mayb only A DROP OF
ALCOHOL! psh…

buuuuttt for this cheap drunky here.. a drop was all it took hahha i love you mel!

the drawback? there was NO ONE in the restaurante… so we were like  

BUT THENNNN…. lo and behold.. this is what happens when five cute
little asian girls look lonely sitting at a table by themselves…

five beyond cute white boys with bulgy biceps plop right down
in  the table next to us.. (zach’s in the middle doing his sexy
face) and do what white people do.. pull up right next to our table.and
start talking… first i was like… wahhh.. who are youu!! and then
..i looked closer and we were like HELLOO!

these white boys made it sooo easy for us.. rollcall =)

left to right–>josh zach zach sam sam.. hahah simple.. easy just
yell out zach or sam and you got a darn good chance of getting it right

MINGLINGGG… ensues… look at zach.. isn’t he a lucky one..i’m
still trying to figure out how he managed to squirm in between me and
kat.. cuz i don’ t remember gettting up… hmm *scratching head* meh..
watever.. no complaints from either of us

now… there was a hottie in each pair..let’s start with the sams

-unanimous consensus- that sam here on the left had THE “bangin body ”
no seriously. .you needed to see it andddd we were allll drooling over
it the wholeee night… then there’s… sam on the right haha no they
were both nice and the sam on the right was a sweetheart.. come on he
paid for all the drinks.. hot sam was quite the charmer.. and dorky
sam.. was… weaksauce .. but watevers it was fun!

pair of brothers

zach and josh zach’s the younger one.. varsity football captain in
high school and abercrombie model.. haha droool… i didn’t figure this
out until we started talking about what we did.. and our jobs.. school
the future.. career goals.. yeah.. sam doesn’t drinkor do drugs! and i
was totally sober that night so in addition to dancing with him the
whole night..  eheh.. we had a totally sober conversation

and let the drinking and mingling begin! let me present to you our self proclaimed body guards for the night!

we were too lazy to get up and mingle.. boy girl boy girl..
haha they can stand.. good enough… cheers to salt, tequila, and lime

he’s a slick one.. see that rose i’m holding? he had one of the
little mexican girls bring it over to my side of the table when i sat
down again.. how cute is that?!?! i melted…  and
then that little mexican girl she was a cutie.. started calling
everyone out and made everyone down like two shots.. then she got
kicked out of the restaurant for soliciting but we had fun… made me
want a daughter… (knock on wood) muuucch later in life

us dancing at the topmost step of iggy’s… he held my purse the whole night haha.. cute huh

he’s a little grumpy here cuz the tequila whistle blower pretty much
came by and poured watered down tequila down my throat.. that’s not the
worse part… the worse part isss… mexican tequila guy smothered my
face with the towel and “wiped my face” sooo hard.. i thought my neck
was going to snap … it HURT! it takes a loottt to hold back a 200
pound white guy from decking mr. tequila and getting stuck in jail..
however.. that’s where my boxing comes in to play.. that and pretending
that i actually liked the tequila .. the sacrifices i have to make hehe

see why we all loved sam?? he’s gorgeous.. lucky mel… mel gets a
picture and kay gets a dance.. where was i during all of this??

4000 people that night.. crazy!

amazing

they look happy hahah i wonder what theyre smiling about

so i’m a littlee bit red and happy.. but look who i ran into in
rosarito?? jessica bird and dimitri.. yay!! LC girls  in
mexicoo she’s a hot one.. see la canada had so many pretty white girls
and hot white guys… but then the asian guys… eck.. just
sliiggghhttly lacking 

i ran into keke and his friends!!!! i  love keke cuz shrug..
he’s keke however wo ke ai guo ni!!! hehe.. keidric was wayyyy drunk..
i dont’ know which i like better drunk keidric or sober keidric?

Seeing ucla there was no biggie.. infact it was fun… THANK THE LORRDDD WE DIDN’T SEE ANY AGC PEOPLE ON SATURDAY!!!woot woot

good choice ladies on picking this weekend c was crazy and it was just harmonies in rosarito…. Not
that we haveee anything against agc.. but its nice to get away from it
for a bit..and all the drama that comes with it whether you like it or
not.. this weekend was alll about our sisterhood  and
you know.. somehow.. exchanges just aren’t gonna cut it anymore.. but
then again.. i’ve only gone to three this whole year. hehe and last year i went to like…. five.. buuttt its all good =)

THE NEXT MORNING…

that my dears is mel… birthday girl.. ok soooo . .in me and kay’s
defense.. maybe i did hog the blanket.. but youuuu rolled urself into
the corner.. girlfriend loovess the corner.. remember when we slept
over at kay’s and at first you were next to me and i woke up and ur
like.. curled up in a little ball the far right? yeah.. that’s what i
thought.. this saturday rosarito round two.. i’m goign to wake up and
push you off  kay’s bed

me and kay giggling at mel’s predicament

lazy kat REFUSED to wake up.. haha. .so i had to
resort to other means… but she just threw the blanket over herself..
what a bum! …. haha she didn’t want to get out of bed so badly… she
reached down next to her pulled out eyemake up and started putting on
eyestuff IN BED! -_-

kay giving me a massage that’s psis lovin right there

buutt that didn’t last for long.. haha.. she looks
like she’s ready to backhand me damnn what did i doo hehe.. acutually
her hair just got stuck in my bobby pins.. and we were stuck and
tangled for a bit

it took a good 5 minutes of convincin the spanish lady that we’re
not going to rob her.. we juustt wanted her to take a picture of us..
necesitamos un picture porfavor =D

walkin around inthe morning checkin out the local-ness of it all playas de tijuana

breakfast at a cute and quaint little restaurante

me “ummm excuse me does the menu come in english?”

waiter: “no”

.. embarrassing.. i got shot down

debbie: “is there ketchup?”

confused waiter:” uhh no”

…five minutes later.. this gets plopped on our table…

he went and BOUGHT ketchup for her american ass haha i love it

coco cabana club … but mexico version

i wanted the waffflleee… and i got it hehe.. sorry kay! its mine mine mine..kat looks like she’s happy  gasp

haha look at kat’s face its got moded stamped allll over it!

we went back to get some souvenirs..

they have such good stuff in mexico.. kay got this
delicious hershey’s cookies and creme drink.. do we get that in
cali..?? NO! kat got chips.. debbie … got this funky candy hahah. .
and IIII got three bottles of tequila for the lil bros =) holding one..
the other two are in the bag hehe… these three almost got repossesed
when we were gonna cross the border back into the u.s. haha luckily
debbie and mel are 21

back at the room… we watched la estrella
instanciando.. or something like that on mtv.. it was in english.. and
THE BEST SHOW EVER!!!! in fact it was so good.. we were like.. screw
shopping.. we watched the marathon haha.. it was soooooo goood..
especially that song.. a little white lie… and when the dad cheated
on the mom and the daughter came in.. oh man! and when the daughter’s
black bf cheatedon her with a blond girl.. wow!!!! intensity!!!!

i love this picture of them two.. it screams cute cute cute

the kr/ch/ristines…hehe i called her this afternoon cuz i coudln’t
stop thinking about rosarito… and surprise surprise.. she coudln’t
either.. i felt much better hehe

PREPARTY TIME!

kay’s a trooper look at that…!!! no chaser!

kat on the other hand.. needed a looot of chaser.. haha. jk.. that
was a good chaser.. jamaica juice.. kay was like.. well we might as
well go authentic.. however.. my dear we are in mexico not jamaica..
hehe.. i love these girls!

debbs a moster look at her hammer that bacardi superior

crazy chick hehe…

here’s to you mel! my birthday gift to you? driving your ass down to
mexico and making this trip happen for youuu!!! hehe.. look at that
mango margarita.. she drank the whollleee thing!!!! i was super
impressed!

me and kat lovingly sharing a pina colada.. mmmm see those two
arrowhead bottles? i mistook the clear one for water.. and took a
ginormous swig of bacardi… hence… the drunken night…

drinking the whollee weekend

kay and debbie shared a kahlua.. it was goooood

uhhh i look like a cheap stripper…

two hours and seven shots of tequila later

well.. me and melo had fun… i was really really happy to see
debbie.. haha.. i was soo happy i threw my arms out and looked like i
jsut won the lottery.. actuallly this is what i looked like when i
drove out of the Ford lot with my new car..

what a lucky guy… once again… we got swarmed by white guys… mexico is a wonderful place hehe

these guys weren’t as fun as saturday’s group.. so we kinda ditched them later hehe

ohhhh well

forever bull riding buddies.. hahah AHHHHHHHHHHH… that was as sexy
as it got.. pretty much we were on that thing .. just holding on for
dear life..i was holding the saddle. .which happened to be in front of
mel’s crotch area.. and she held that same area.. so it looked a little
funky.. then she fell off and i fell right on top of the birthday girl
haha

a couple swigs later.. i look like i’m in pain

me and kay got the lobster and salmon.. mmmm kay and
debbie got lobster and shrimp.. and mel got.. chicken haha.. .but it
was stillgood..

birthday girl. .is biigggg pimpin tonight!

the streets of mexico

so that night pappas and bear was NOT happenin.. but that’s cuz we
compared it to iggy’s.. sunday wasss one night where i did not remember
a single thing.. i dont even remember taking pictures with the girls..
haha luckily for me.. i had them around me the whole night hehe.. me
and mel.. were gonneee

BERKELEY LAMBDAS and UCLA THETAS in rosarito =)
so sunday we went to pappas and
beer.. .it totally wasn’t fun at first cuz there was this performance
supposedly by lil easy .. (who is that?!) and then we found out that he
was dead and it was actually a tribute to him..the dj sucked.. and
there was like.. no one there at like 11.. but then… after two bull
rides, 3 shots, and dancing with a cute white guy named Chris from
Berkeley.. things started looking up… and that was when we ran into
Lambdas from Berkeley =)

so we fianlly got to meet our pledge bros… and they were just really chill and nice

needless to say.. WE HAD FUN!

oh
dear was i drunk that night.. seriously .. that was like the second
time in my life that i’ve been that drunk… never underestimate mexico
tequila… you wake up super hungry and grouchy..

awwww who took this picture?? i don’t even remmeber taking this picture

why was i pissed off? i dont remember… i think the dude was taking
too long taking the picture.. i look like i was thinking.. “this guy’s
more camera challenged than i am”

who’s lex luther wanna be?

yeah here’s mel and here’s me telling showing her how much i love her.. i coudln’t even stand up..that’s how bad it was..
NEVER AGAIN!!!seriously though… NNEVVERRR AGAINN…I realized why i
stayed away from massive alcohol consumption last year.. and i decided
that i really don ‘t like headaches

mel chillin!!

seriously i don’t remember taking ANY of these pictures… oh god hehe

first time meeting berkeley lambdas yay! =) i approve hehe

we were attracting some cute white guys along the way.. and mel caught one. .hehe look how happy the bday girl is

hmmmm…did i take that picture? i remember dancing around those bone
things… and then wondering to myself… what synthetic materials they
were made out of

haha what a small world. .we met some of hte berkeley sigmas too and
ended up staying over at the beach house that the sigmas and lambdas
got.. it turned into a mini exchange that night. haha but they were fun
and totally cool to hang out with for the few moments that i was thinking straight and i remember getting
out of the cab hanging on to kay and then flopping onto the couch
inbetween debbie and kay.. and our couch got surrounded by five guys
just yelling and talking really loud. so i do whati normally do.. shut
everythin out – burrow behind kay just peace out and that’s how i woke up + a headache… hehe… it
took a loonngg time to figure out what happened

yay yay yay… muah muah muah

kay kinda overcooked the pizza.. nevertheless it was good

we stayed an extra night at kay’s house. hehe.. i was too lazy to
drive back sooo movie and ice cream pie night.. happy birthday to youu
happy birthday to you!!! then came the love song.. hehe.. i liked it!!!
aren’t we saps?

in front of kay’s beautiful home in san diego..

sister hood never goes out of style.. you sport those retainers mel!
haha.. she got so excited she forgot to take out her retainers
hehe so many memories

mel’s first real sleepover

even though we slept the whole day

awww this was sad.. we’re leavinggg

all scrubbed out and tired as heck

i got a little too excited at target..they have the best deal on
tuppeware there.. target is a sorority girl’s best friend… it really
is..

is this norrmal??! like.. all i do is think about rosarito.. i called
the girls and its the same for them ahahahha…. we’re so addicted…
what do we doooo!!!!! sigh.. i guess we gotta go back saturday huh but dood maybe we should chill a bit.. but that was crazyyy fun!